I have been married to my husband Brandon for almost 3 years, but I keep dreaming of my ex Kesley.

Almost every night this week I have dreamed of him. But I can only remember a little about two of the dreams. I just know that he is almost always in my dreams. Last night I dreamed that he was in some kind of accident and somehow I could not figure out if he survived or not. I asked one of my friends and she was like I don’t know I know that they had to resuscitate him, but I am not sure if he made it. I woke up from the dream never knowing if he made it or not. Another dream I had was I setting by him at a indoor carnival. He was wearing a black cap, when he looked at me his eyes were so pretty and inviting. Then we kissed just a peck and it was the most perfect kiss ever. I was very warm and fussy inside, I even woke up feeling that away. Can you please help me figure out what these dreams mean?

Dear Dreamer,

In your dream, I feel that your ex, Kelsey, has shown up as a symbol or a messenger for you. I don’t feel the dream is actually about him at all. Rather it’s about yourself.

Dreaming of an accident of someone you know and love represents a part of you that’s in danger of ‘dying’ or being hurt or rather an aspect of you, so to speak. When a loved one actually dies in an accident in your dream, it does represent some part of yourself actually dying. So it would be helpful if you took an internal audit and check out what’s going on with you, making sure that you are living authentically. By living authentically I mean you aren’t lying to yourself about anything, but living in way that works for you, rather than against you. It feels like things are flowing smoothly in your life.

When you asked your friend and they didn’t give you the answer you wanted was telling you that you need to ask yourself the question. You are needing to look within rather than looking outside yourself for answers as to what’s missing in your life.

Your other dream shows the side of you that is wanting to get out and play! To have some fun and just reconnect with the side of yourself that is childlike. Carnivals are all about fun, being a child, and just indulging in having a great time and being carefree.  When you look at it. this dream really answers your other dream’s question. Do you feel like you have been smothering your inner child somewhat and not having enough time to play, let loose and just have fun?

The kiss itself is really innocent, childlike and I feel very strongly that this dream is really about you rediscovering your inner self and your inner child and just getting out there and having some fun! It doesn’t have to be a carnival or anything as big as that, although if you enjoy them and one is around by all means go along. It’s more about having fun in your daily life. Make time to go outside and just play. Be silly, do your hair up in silly styles, call your friends over and have a sleepover. Just indulge your inner child and really enjoy your life, rather than taking it so seriously.

Love
Diana