Hi,

There is a boy I am friends with i keep dreaming about. One of the dream all of us were at a wedding and I was going to meet him in the pub the lads had gone seperate to the ladies. The second dream I was sleeping with him. We kissed a few weeks ago and left it at that but since we get on a lot better but there is still a bit of awkward. I dont know what to make out of the dreams maybe you can help me.

Regards

Dear Dreamer,

It would help you to understand your dream better if you can see what your friend represents to you in life. For example, one friend might make you think of travel, another life change and another, security. If you can work out what this friend of yours represents to you, you will have a greater understanding of what your dreams are trying to tell you.

To dream about a wedding can symbolise a new beginning or a transition in your life. Wedding dreams can also alert you to some inner anxiety or fear, such as bitterness, sorrow, death or even feeling left on the shelf.

When you dream about sex it has a myriad of meanings, it's not just a wish fulfillment about the person you are dreaming of, although it can be that also. Sex represents completion, not on the physcial level, but psychologically too, and it represents you needing to accept the contrasting aspects of your dream sex partner into yourself. Think of the traits you admire in your friend that you are dreaming of and try to bring these into yourself as this is what your dream is suggesting you do.

It can also mean that it's been awhile since you last had sex and this is your body's way of reminding you that you are wanting or needing it at this time. As you said that you have already kissed your friend, this seems to be the most likely meaning of the dream, your dream self was just taking what had happened to completion.

I hope that has helped you gain some clarity, if not let me know!

Love
Diana