Your reading shows that your partner does indeed project his anger and emotional outbursts onto you and although he suffers from depression, he is also in denial. There is a lot of love between both of you, but you must note in order for the relationship to survive, someone needs to take charge and implement change. The card of counselling is dominant in your spread and your reading indicates that you must be the person who takes this path in order to preserve and sustain your relationship. In time your relationship will change onto a better path. Inner strength is required to enable you to take this direction.
From there you will be in a better emotional state to encourage him to take the steps he needs to deal with his issues

Best of luck to you both